With so many pieces and players involved in a wedding, there are bound to be a few mishaps. Never fear! There’s a wedding survival kit and plan to prepare for the “oops”, “oh no”, and “I forgot” wedding emergencies. Here’s what you do:
First: Mental Preparation
The first thing you need isn’t the wedding survival kit. You will want that, but first you have to accept that in all likelihood something will go wrong. It could be something small; like a groomsmen might wear the wrong colored socks. Or it could be something big; like the caterer mistook your order and instead of bringing enough food for 500 people, they bring enough for 50. Either way, if you accept it now, even if it is stressful, it won’t completely ruin your day. Though, a catering mishap like that would be completely understandable to freak out over!
Next: Make a list
Delegate! I know some brides don’t want to let go of the control, but it’s in your best interest if you do. Take an evening with your groom and make a list of all the things you are most worried about. What do you think is going to go wrong? Then pick a person for each worry and put them in charge of making sure that it won’t happen. Your bridal party members are perfect for this! However, if your big worry is that the best man will forget to pick up grammy from the airport, maybe assign someone else to remind him or to just take over that task for him!
Then: Make a contingency plan for the major details
This is along the same lines as number two, but with a focus on the BIG things and not so much on the little details. For example, if the catering mishap described at the beginning of the blog did happen, what would be your back up plan? Take a look at the biggest part of the wedding – your venue, caterer, photographer, entire floral delivery – and decide on back ups if they should somehow fall through.
Finally: Bring a Wedding Survival Kit
Now this is one that you can just buy, pack in your bag, and then just know you are covered! Get a “Personalized Vintage Clutch” survival kit here with emergency items, such as bobby pins and a sewing kit. Then, if anything should happen to your hair, your dress, your mother’s dress – you know you got it covered! There are even some for the groom!